Women's Safety Information

I use a generic term, “Self-Defense Keychain,” to describe this device but you may have heard of it by more popular, commercial names such as “Kubaton” or “Persuader Keychain.” Because, “Kubaton” is the most popular, I’ll use that term interchangeably with the one I use.

The Kubaton is a light-weight metal, plastic or wooden dowel. It’s about five inches long and one half inch in diameter. The shaft of this weapon is usually knurled or grooved so that it doesn’t slip in your hand. On one end of the Kubaton is a ring or two holding a cluster of ten to fifteen keys.

Recently, manufacturers have attempted to enhance the Kubaton with sharpened ends, telescoping tubes, spikes, enclosed canisters of pepper spray and even hidden knife blades. I won’t get into these additional “bells and whistles” and will limit my recommendation to the basic model consisting of a shaft, key rings and keys.

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The self-defense keychain is discrete, unassuming, and convenient to carry. If used properly, it can dramatically increase the odds of surviving and escaping from a serious, life-threatening assault. I discuss the keychain during my self-defense seminars because it stands up nicely to the seven evaluation questions.

I prefer to discuss and provide information about the keychain but hesitate to make blatant recommendations about it, or any other device or weapon. I believe that the decision about whether to carry a personal safety device, and which one you carry, is YOUR decision. I prefer that you evaluate and analyze the “pros and cons” for yourself. This article is to assist you in that process process.

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SEVEN EVALUATION QUESTIONS

If you missed the last issue of the Protective Strategies Self-Defense Newsletter (December 2000) I’ll review the seven Personal Safety Device Evaluation Questions:

1. Is it legal?

2. Will I carry it all the time?

3. Will it be immediately available when I need it?

4. Do I have legitimate confidence in my ability to use it?

5. Is it as effective as it has been held out to be?

6. Could it be taken away and used on me?

7. Am I physically, mentally and emotionally prepared to use it?

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1. IS IT LEGAL?

In most jurisdictions that I am aware of, the Kubaton is legal. It can be purchased over the counter in security, martial arts and sporting goods stores. I found several online merchants selling them for $5 to $25 dollars. Because they have a utility function (to hold your keys) they can be legally carried.

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In Canada, the Kubaton is neither a restricted nor a prohibited weapon. It is therefore legal to carry providing it is not used for illegal purposes. They are also available across the U.S. However, if you are considering carrying a Kubaton, you might want to make your own enquiries to confirm if they are legal in your jurisdiction.
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2. WILL I CARRY IT ALL THE TIME?

This is the beauty of the self-defense keychain. What is the most common thing that you carry in your hand when coming or going from your vehicle, home or workplace? Your keys! Because you carry your day-to-day keys on the self-defense keychain, it is likely that you will have it in your hand more than any other object. This increases the odds that, if you are attacked, it will be in your hand and ready to go. This is a huge benefit when considering a personal safety device or weapon.

3. WILL IT BE IMMEDIATELY AVAILABLE WHEN I NEED IT?

Again, the self-defense keychain is likely to be ready to go when you need it most. It’s not enough to have a Personal Safety Device in your possession. It won’t do you much good in your purse, pocket or vehicle. If you keep your keys on the keychain, it is a simple matter of establishing a habit of carrying it in your hand whenever you leave your home.

4.DO I HAVE CONFIDENCE IN MY ABILITY TO USE IT?

There are a number of “SILLY” techniques associated with the Kubaton. They include fancy wristlocks, takedowns, releases from holds and other elaborate techniques that just won’t stand up in the stress and chaos of a real-world confrontation. Even if they did work (which they don’t) they would require extensive practice and training to become competent.

Secondly, in a stressful encounter, only simple, large-muscle actions can be performed effectively. For that reason, a practical self-defense system must be simple and have as few techniques as possible. The system that I teach, for example, consists of three basic striking methods that are natural and consistent with what one would conceivably do during a combative situation.

Because the Kubaton is a hard object, it concentrates and intensifies the striking energy that is transferred into the assailant. Even with minimal training, a keychain strike is far more likely to incapacitate a violent assailant than an empty-handed response.

5. IS IT AS EFFECTIVE AS IT HAS BEEN HELD OUT TO BE?

When used properly, the self-defense keychain is a devastating weapon with potential to seriously injure and incapacitate a violent attacker. For that reason, it should only be used in situations where you reasonably believe the attack is serious and life threatening. You must also believe that you don’t have less forceful alternatives available to protect yourself.

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WAIVER – Because of the potential consequences of using a personal safety weapon, I need to be clear that I provide this information for educational purposes only. How you use the information is up to you. Refer to my disclaimer statement at: http://www.protectivestrategies.com/disclaimer.html
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6.COULD IT BE TAKEN AWAY AND USED ON ME?

The honest answer to this question is, “yes.” ANY personal safety weapon: a knife, pepper spray or a shoe for that matter, can potentially be taken away and used on you in the same fashion you intended to use it on your assailant.

However, the general consensus amongst my seminar candidates is that the benefits of having one outweigh the possibility of losing it. A benefit of the self-defense keychain is that the assailant may not recognize it as a weapon and, if he did gain access to it, wouldn’t think to use it as one.

It is important to consider the potential of being disarmed when carrying a personal safety weapon. Acknowledge the possibility of dropping or losing it and do everything you can to prevent it from falling into the hands of your attacker.

7. AM I PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY AND EMOTIONALLY PREPARED TO USE IT?

This is a question only you can answer. Don’t just buy a self-defense keychain, attach it to your keys and carry it around expecting that you will magically resort to it if you are ever attacked. A basic, self-defense response system should be learned and practiced when adopting this device.

Developing competence does not require thousands of repetitions and hours of training. However, you should spend some time learning how to prepare and grip the weapon as well as how and where to strike an assailant for maximum effectiveness.

Ideally, you should seek out instruction from a competent self-defense keychain instructor. However, if the system is simple enough (as mine is) I believe you can teach yourself the basic skills you need from a manual.

The keychain basics are simple and not hard to learn. Using the keychain will intensify the destructiveness of your response to a violent attack and increase the potential of escaping death or serious injury. Learn the basic concepts (mental preparation). Practice the basic strikes (physical preparation). The only thing left is to develop the emotional resolve to do whatever it takes to protect yourself and survive!

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CONCLUSION

Whether you decide to explore the issue of the self-defense keychain further; whether you decide to buy and carry one, is entirely up to you. I can provide you only with information to assist you with that decision making process but ultimately you must take full responsibility for your personal safety and draw your own conclusions about what is and isn’t right for you. If you’ve read this far, I’m sure you’ll make a wise choice.

Take care, train smart and stay safe,

Randy LaHaie

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Now that you have this information, what good is it to you? Before we get into that, let me be clear on a VERY IMPORTANT POINT. I am NOT an advocate of carrying a weapon or device as a “PRIMARY” self-defense strategy. A PSD is a piece of the overall puzzle but not nearly as effective as developing a comprehensive and balanced personal safety strategy.

Your “BRAIN” is your primary tool for staying safe. Your mental, physical and emotional development determines your ability to avoid and detect danger and to deal with it effectively if it does arise.

Fighting back… especially with a weapon, should be considered a last resort, not a first, and especially not the only one you have! If you must fight back, the keychain will help, but don’t lose sight of the need to explore and develop the other components of self-defense that will have a greater affect on your ability to stay safe.

The keychain is just one more tool in your “self-defense tool box.” Keep Looking for and developing other skills, knowledge and response options. That’s why we say one “STUDIES” self-defense. It’s an on going process. We can’t buy it, borrow it or carry it in our pocket. Don’t forget that.

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“Remember: it’s not the weapon that counts so much as how you use it. Even the most commonplace or seemingly harmless item becomes an efficient weapon when directed toward the vulnerable parts of the human body. Household weapons are often at your fingertips, so use them!”

Al Marrewa

The Feminine Warrior

A Woman’s Guide to Verbal, Psychological and Physical Empowerment

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By: Randy LaHaie

About the Author:

Evangius asked:

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Self Defense tip in silly presentation

myosource asked:

myosource.com showme-selfdefense.com Self Defense for beginners. Grace is a College student and not a mean bone in her body. She wanted to know what to do in case of attack. Here are a few simple moves and suggestions to fight off an attacker, scare them startle them and give yourself a chance to get away. Saving Grace

ShootStreetFight asked:

girl Self Defense – Mod @ PHAYATHAI FIGHT GYM MMA and Submission Grappling Detchoot (เดชโชติ)

Accidents can happen anywhere and at any time. One of the most common workplace accidents happen due to slips, trips and falls. Sometimes, trips and falls can be avoided is proper precaution is taken. Many of these accidents happen because of negligence. We should never take our safety for granted.

However, women face all kinds of dangers at work too such as physical, emotional and also sexual dangers. Some men prey on women. Some women face such incredible dangers when going to work sometimes. It is important that women in particular take precautions when she is at work.

Some men take advantage of their higher posts at work. They use this authority to dominate women. Some even go to the extent of abusing the women and harassing them physically and sexually. These women, in fear of losing their jobs sometimes have no choice but to comply with them.

Women are advised to keep a safe distance from men. Always be reminded that you have to stay professional and always keep a safe line between work and personal life. It will get very complicated if these two are mixed together. Women and men alike are advised to not bring personal matters into the workplace.

Apart from being victims, workplace safety also refers to the physical safety of the workplace itself. Some work places are deemed dangerous as they may be slippery and not well maintained. Always take precautions and be careful of the surroundings.

If a workplace is well maintained safety would not be a problem. The safety of the workers should never be compromised. If the safety is compromised, accidents can happen and it would not only cause injures, it will sometimes cause deaths. Therefore, everyone in the workplace should take responsibility and keep the place safe for everyone.

However, in order to prevent accidents from happening, higher authorities in the workplace must also play a part. They must play a part in educating workers to follow procedures. They can also come out with incentives program to show the workers that their part in keeping the workplace safe is appreciated.

Working together, your workplace can be a much safe environment. Workers should also respect one another to avoid personal disagreements and compromise the safety of other people in the workplace. This way, the workplace would not only be a safe place, it would be a workplace everyone would love to be a part of.

By: Joseph Then

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Fabiola Castillo asked:


Stun guns are an increasingly popular self defense tool especially among women. Stun guns are not lethal like firearms and not lacerative like knives. These stun guns have the ability to put down an attacker with a simple push of a button. It is the voltage in stun guns that can put down an attacker.

What is a stun gun?

Traditionally, a stun gun is a handheld device that has a trigger and two metal prongs at the end of the unit. One must make contact with the perpetrator by placing the two metal prongs of the stun gun anywhere on his body and pulling the trigger. The stun gun is operated by a power source provided usually by a 9 V battery.

How does a stun gun work?

An electric shock will be delivered to the attacker’s muscles thus causing severe muscular contractions that will produce lactic acid. Lactic acid is a byproduct produced by the muscles when a muscle is being overworked from the effects of the stun gun. Lactic acid will result when fatiguing a muscle that is exposed to repeated electric shock from a stun gun.

Furthermore, the electric shock from the stun gun will interrupt the attacker’s nervous system and minimize communication from the brain to the peripheral nerves. This interruption in “nerve flow” as well as the electrifying effects of the stun gun will temporarily incapacitate a potential attacker who is out to get you.

What are other types of stun guns?

There is a law enforcement edition of a stun gun called the Taser. Most popular among law enforcement personnel is the M-18 Taser stun gun. A Taser stun gun contains two metal darts that are connected to fine, threadlike wiring. Once a Taser stun gun is fired upon a perpetrator, the two darts stick to the person’s body. The handheld unit of the Taser stun gun contains the trigger that, once pulled, will send an electric shock through the wiring, through the darts, and into the person. The ultimate result will be that the perpetrator will fall to the ground in agonizing pain.

This particular stun gun is very effective in short range (up to 15 feet) confrontations without the user having to come into physical contact with the perpetrator.

Stun batons are another kind of stun gun device. Stun batons are a fan favorite among security guards. With their extended reach, one can maintain a distance between himself and the perpetrator. These stun batons have two metal strips on each side of the baton. If the perpetrator attempts to grab the baton, he will be electrified. Our stun batons come in two flavors, 300,000 V and 500,000 V, and measure 16″ in length.

Telescopic Stun Baton by Stun Master. This particular item measures 13″ closed, 21.5″ open, and puts out a whopping 800,000 V. It also contains a personal alarm and flashlight for night time use. This item makes an excellent, concealable tool for your utility belt. Unlike the aforementioned stun baton, the Telescopic Stun Baton contains metal around the entire shaft of the baton and not just two strips of metal.

destroyer_of_fish asked:

Why is it considered acceptable in society for a woman to strike a man, but not vice versa.

Bambi asked:


I live by myself. I’ve never owned a handgun before. I’m an athletic 40 year old woman. I want to get a handgun to protect myself, but I’ve never even fired one. I intend to get all the necessary permits. and learn how to use it and practice at the firing range. The gun dealer tells me to get a .38 revolver, but friend days I should get a 9mm semi-automatic. I have no idea what brands/models are quality. I want:
1) ease of use/ease of learning
2) reliability
3) reasonable price
4) stopping power
probably in that order
Any suggestions?
Brand names, please? What is good, what is junk?