Women's Safety Information

itai82 asked:

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There is a valid reason why a child is often a better judge of character than their parent or any adult for that matter. Gut feelings are survival instincts we were born with and their job is to keep us alive. A child’s gut feelings are raw as they have yet to be taught to gloss over them with politeness or push them aside opting instead for logic. In fact, gut feelings have absolutely nothing to do with logic, which is why they are so often ignored. The problem with ignoring them is that they are the one and only trustworthy mechanism for your personal safety or that of your child.

Uncle Bob Story:

Let’s say Uncle Bob comes to visit every Thanksgiving and stays with your family for 4 days. The whole family adores Uncle Bob as he is fun, always has a good joke and is willing to pitch in and help.

Your 5-year-old comes to you and says he doesn’t like it when Uncle Bob sits him on his lap. You may say something like, “Oh, Uncle Bob is only here for a few days and wants to spend time with his nephew,” or “That’s silly. Go play in your room.”

Let me ask you two questions:

Are you going to force your child to be near people he is uncomfortable with so that you don’t feel embarrassed? If Uncle Bob is a pedophile, are you going to get the vibes not being in his age range or is your child, who is in his age range?

See how easy it is to tell (and show) your child that his survival instincts are unimportant? Do you think he will come to you again in the same situation? Do you think your response could possibly cost him his innocence?

The point I’m making is brutal because of its importance and intensity. We have to reawaken our sensitivities as adults because society has programmed us to avoid making waves. I’m sure you agree that making waves is far superior to enabling predators.

Remember, pedophiles groom children and families to trust and believe in them before they attack. They often target single moms and enter the relationship as the savior, the hero. They provide comfort, stability and a father figure…until they attack. Then people’s lives are changed forever.

What if Uncle Bob is not a pedophile; your child just does not like him, you ask?

Your child will have to go to school and work with people he doesn’t like. Home is supposed to be a safe haven. Letting him know that his feelings are valid and of the utmost importance by helping make other arrangements for Uncle Bob will raise his self-esteem and enhance your relationship with him forever.

There are many excellent Uncle Bobs out there just as there are many excellent men who date and marry single moms. The key is to trust your gut feelings and pay especially close attention to your child’s. Facilitate the growth and awareness of their survival instincts and in so doing, you will automatically acknowledge and trust your own, which will keep the entire family safer from creeps and criminals.

What if you haven’t followed your gut feelings and nothing bad has happened to you?

Super! But when you acknowledge your gut feelings, which you have about every person, place or situation, you will know when one is exceptionally strong. Follow that one. It could save your life or that of a loved one.


Pet People

If you have pets, you’ve probably noticed their behavior around people who turn out to be detrimental is or was different than around those who are of good character. That is because animals rely on their survival instincts (gut feelings) to stay alive and never question them. If they are uncomfortable, there is no question and they do not stick around to be polite. We can and should learn a lot from our pets.

Tips to help you nurture your child’s gut feelings:

Ask your child how he or she feels about people you came in contact with throughout the day. Ask your child which person he or she would feel comfortable asking for help if if was needed. Have a secret code word so that your child can alert you when he or she feels uncomfortable around someone so you can take action and remove yourselves from the situation immediately. Make a pact with your child that you will believe him or her when the topic is safety and that they will always tell the truth about safety situations. In my Safe Kids class, we have both parent and child actually sign an agreement. It makes both parent and child feel more accountable and comforts the child. Always opt for your child’s comfort with people first and yours second.

Now you know why children are often better judges of character than adults even though they may not know what it is they are doing.

By: Kelly Rudolph

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steve kovacs asked:


Most everyone knows about the five-second rule. This unwritten rule says that when you’re cooking or preparing a piece of food and it falls to the ground and it stays no longer than five seconds, it’s okay to serve or eat it. Six or seven seconds—throw it away, but five seconds or under, it’s all right. It’s more of a funny or joke type rule than a serious one and people have different variations to it.

So how in the world can this rule have any thing do with safety? A lot. One of the biggest mistake people have with their personal safety and security is not taking the time to be aware of their surroundings. It’s not that they don’t know they should be aware of what may be going on around them, but the problem is in how to really slow down a bit and take the time to be aware.

As an example, when we are getting out of our cars whether at a mall, doctors office or grocery store we pretty much blindly pull in, park, and start walking to the door without being aware of what dangers may be out there. We’re thinking about our kids, husbands, wives, daily problems, the lack of hours in a day to finish everything we’ve got to get done, or a dozen other things which may be going on in our lives. It’s not that we don’t know it’s prudent to look around a bit to make sure we’re not walking into a problem. It’s just that we’re engulfed in other things—and this is dangerous—especially for women.

This is where the five-second rule comes in to play. Remind yourself that if you want to make sure you’ll get home and see your loved ones again, if you want to live another day, if you want to achieve your God given potential, that from this day forward you will take five seconds for safety. It means that every time you are getting ready to get out of your car in a public area you’re going to look to the left, right, behind and in front of you, looking for anything concerning or suspicious. This also goes for when you’re getting ready to leave an area to go to your parked car. This five-second rule slows you down just long enough to access what’s around you. It can save your life.

Years ago, I listened to an interview of a murderer who said if the woman he killed at an ATM would “have just been more aware of her surrounding she would have been alive today”.

We know it’s good to be aware of our surroundings, but to remember to do it is another thing for most people. Well, from this day forward, remember that silly old rule that’s universally known in America. The one that makes us smile when we think about it, and revise it to The Five-Second Rule for Safety. Then commit to the fact that from this day on you’re going to remember it and utilize it for your safety and security. This reminder and commitment will quickly become second nature and after a while you’ll just automatically do it—and it will also make you much more likely to live and love, yet another day.