Women's Safety Information

You, as a lady, are prey for some men or a victim applicant to criminals. As prey:

You are stalked. Watched and subdued. Made ********** to male authority Put in your place. Raped or Abused

It doesn’t matter if you are a stranger. What your job is. Words or screams will not alter your capturer’s intent. Your adversary has selected you alone on the fifth floor of a dimly lighted parking garage looking for where you parked the car after lunch. He’s between you and the garage elevator with a tire lug wrench in his left hand. Glittering eyes watching you from behind his ski mask. You pivot and run. The echoes of your clacking heels on the rough brown concrete reverberate from the walls. Your heart races away causing you to tremble.

There right in front of you a second large man with a ski mask jogs down the incline directly at you! “Where are you going Missy?” he calls out while slowing down from a jog.

“You can have whatever you want!” You plead looking from one man to the other.

“Just don’t hurt me.”

Lady, this is not a world filled with sugar plums and gingerbread men all striving to make you safe and happy. In this world bad things happen to good people, especially females. Five foot two a hundred and six shaking pounds that’s all you have against the threats around you. You heard about these assaults on late night news station.

Not you, never you! They always happen to other women in other garages in town.

Rule 1, you are responsible for your own safety, security and defense. Policemen are too heavy to carry in your purse. You are really on your own.

Rule 2, be aware of your surroundings and persons around you. Know where your car is!

Rule 3, do you need to be where you are at without a guard or security present? Drag a co-worker with you at least.

Rule 4, what’s your role in all of this? Play devil’s advocate about your security and defense. Change from pumps to sneakers in the office. Car keys in your hand not your handbag. Where you can’t find anything! Tasers come in lipstick containers, cellphone and of course as tasers. Perhaps a concealed collapsible baton or firearm with you as a last resort defense.

Rule 5, you must learn to use whatever you carry or bring with you for defense. A martial art class on a continuing basis might be just the exercise routine you need instead of stair climber exercise machine.

Rule 6, you have to commit to doing whatever is necessary to protect your body and life. You have the right to be deadly in your own defense. You’re not trying to put up a good fight! You must survive and the odds of that will be in doubt unless you commit to your surviving. You don’t care about your attacker!

Rule 7, fear is healthy. Find out what you fear and take steps to deal with it. Fear is not being just being afraid. Fear causes specific actions within and by your mind and body. Tunnel vision, loss of hearing, audible heartbeat, adrenalin flowing in your body, loss of fine motor skills, and judgment. Investigate what it is like.

Rule 8, bring your skill, practice, equipment, and aware mindset with you every day. The law doesn’t expect a five foot two inch lady to physically beat up a six foot two hundred ten pound angry man. Please be reasonable and bring an edged weapon or firearm to the fight!

Rule 9, disengage your mouth and remember the first eight rules. A conversation is not necessary with your opponent.

Rule 10, do above rules. No one but you cares for you as much as you!

Please return tomorrow for part two. How not to play victim ladies!

Be safe, live and prosper.



By: Ronald Newton

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