lets see what the basic differences are in men and women. what do the guys look for in a relationship/marriage and what do the ladies want? i appreciate all the the answers from security to a home cooked meal
I need a man who is not affraid to show me affection in public or around friends and not treat me like **** just because other people are around. If he knows how to cook then that is a +.
jj
August 14th, 2009 at 11:24 AM
Respect and trust. A true partner. Someone who makes you feel good about yourself.
All the rest should fall into line.
Nick Z
August 17th, 2009 at 11:20 PM
Regular sexual satisfaction and the companionship that goes along with it is what most men want.
bobbo342
August 20th, 2009 at 8:09 AM
I look for a women who knows what she wants in her future husband. Sticks to her values, someone who prays, loves kids, sense of humor, spunk, can handle herself but will look to her husband for guidance and to take the lead.
Jesus has to be at the center of her core so that He can be the center of our relationship.
traceyjay
August 20th, 2009 at 3:09 PM
I’d recommend Love and Respect by Eggerichs and The Proper Care and Feeding of Marriage by Dr. Laura for some solid information on this topic. Personally, I want to be cherished and have my husband be on my side. My husband wants me to trust, admire and respect him. We both want each other to be kind, considerate, and caring. Oh, and we want passionate love making.
Eric
August 23rd, 2009 at 8:12 PM
well everyone needs to discharge their energy in a sexual way, but i think that a main for me is that she and i are compatible – meaning we get along very well. if i love being with a girl no matter what she does to annoy me, then it will be a great relationship. not to sound vain, but looks do count, to all guys. unless your jesus boy up there.
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